Cumming on the CMQshow

I don’t know if it was obvious to those of you that listened to my interview on the CMQshow but I had never done anything like that before.

Even though I was nervous, it felt strangely serendipitous.  

If I hadn’t discovered Christian McQueen’s blog posts last year while doing research, I don’t think I would be a phone sex operator today.  It’s bizarre that reading a random writer, from a world I didn’t know existed, started a chain of events in my life that would eventually cum full-circle to being interviewed on his show.  Before I expand on a few of the things we discussed during the interview, I want to say Thank You to Christian and Dagonet (follow them on twitter).  These guys were good to me–allowing me to ramble on from topic to topic, and share my unedited experiences.

They are both truly impressive gentlemen.  I’m honored to have been invited on their show.

Visit their websites at The Quest for 50 and Christian McQueen


I know I promised a post on the tickler–it’s close to a final edit.  It’s important to me that I capture this experience honestly, and with vivid detail–which takes time.  It will be up this week. 


It's a Happy Medium (Find Out How the Future Looks)The question came up of my callers moving beyond phone sex (not “needing” it anymore).  It was implied that helping them find real-life sexual or social outlets may be bad for my business.  I’ve never considered it in those terms.  I don’t think about the money–it’s insignificant, other than to acknowledge that my time is worth something.

Mostly on calls, I’m just trying to give a man what he needs from me.

Paid phone sex is a complex dance of words and cues.  Guys don’t usually come right out and tell me why they’ve called–I have to figure it out.

Not all my callers are depressed and needy, or seeking council.  I have many different kinds of calls.  A lot of the men I talk to are charming, articulate, and smart with very, very, dirty minds.  For some, I’m a pre going-out warm up ritual, an after work wind-down, or a drunk late-night phone call. Sometimes I’m only an actress, and they don’t want to get personal.  Other times I’m a girlfriend, a mistress, a submissive, a porn star, a therapist, or anything else you can imagine.

girly magazineIt’s an intense and very personal human interaction between two people.  We are sharing a moment in life.  Hopefully they get something out of talking to me–I definitely get something out of talking to them

During the podcast we talked a lot about shame-based fantasies.  I hear a lot of shame in my line of work.

When we discussed women and rape fantasies, I pointed out that some of these come from the way women relate to sex, and sexuality at the beginning stages of puberty.  I don’t believe that seeing a rape scene in movie causes the desire for these types of fantasies–only that the scenes gives an image, and context to sex for women.  Also, to clarify, a rape fantasy should be called a ravishment fantasy.  It is created within my mind–it can never really be a *rape* fantasy.  I define the boundaries, choose the characters, create the scene and determine how it plays out.

Ravishment fantasies come mostly from a woman wanting to be desired so much, a man is willing to do anything to have her.  It is a fantasy designed to validate the power of her femininity.

IMG_1173As for those deep-throating skills I mentioned –  Doin’ It With Dr. V: Deep Throat Tips From A Sword Swallower –this article is a great place to start learning.  It not only gives great general advice on the practice of deep-throating, it also gives many tips on learning to suppress your gag reflex.  Remember being good at anything takes practice.  Good Luck!

After the show, I was really worked up for awhile.  I did cum again for them (twice).  I even recorded it and sent them the audio.  Maybe if you ask nice they will share it with you.

Just Wanted To Say Thank You. Shaking And Still Cumming

The Verdict was "Wow!" 1947Next time I’m going to have actual phone sex with them–If they’re game.

I hope everyone enjoyed the show.  Thank you to all that have reached out to me with responses and questions.  And of course, Thank You again to The Christian McQueen Show, it was so much fun cumming on your show.  Check out their show my lovely perverts.

Kisses and Luv

Chloe

chloeluv@chloeluv.com

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Author: Chloe Luv

I’ve decided that I want to become a phone sex operator (PSO). It’s something I have fantasized about since I was a teenager. Only problem is -- I know almost nothing about what it really means to be a PSO.

  • JP

    Great interview. Insightful, intelligent and sexy. I only wish they would have avoided interrupting you as much as they did!

    • Thank you. I’m happy you enjoyed it! :)